Module 5: Today, it is a fact that a lot of Filipino women are into online GOLD digging. You know what it means, right? Suppose one of them is your sister who happens to be your family's breadwinner. What would you do on this matter?

      Actually I have no sibling, I am the only child in the family but this matter reflects to my two cousins who married a foreigner and they are much very happy. As long as they are okay with it and happy, there's no problem at all.  I know also the reason why they want a foreigner; first is for the greener pastures and others. I give you the short details.

She graduated with a degree of Information Technology, but nowadays, there are lots of people but less vacancies for any kind of work and also have small salaries. The other reason is for convenience, to help the family to be able to pay all the debts. And I believe that the feelings between them can grow as time goes by and as long they respect each other. I don't have rights to control her decisions only I accepted those reasons. I also met the guy and he is good in character.

The other of my cousin was very lucky. They met in Korea where my cousin worked there. The guy is only in twenties and have a really good job. He courted my cousin and the reason for him because he loves the culture of Philippines where Filipina are caring, loving, thoughtful and have great patience and a good material for a wife.

In a relationship, it's give and take. It may sound too good to be true and it still happens for some. They have their own rights what's good for them and I wouldn't mind. I accept their decisions and be happy with them.